To Have Sex or Not To Have Sex in the beginning????
By · CommentsImagine this
You met a very attractive guy or lady, you go out and everything is going well, that person is into you, digging you, as well you are digging her. Should you have sex with a guy or girl that you just met and you want a relationship with that person? If you wait to have sex, you might never have sex with that person, but if you have sex with that person, then that relationship is not off to a great start.
If you want a relationship with that person, then having sex on the first night is not a great way to kick it off. If that person have sex with you the first night how many other people (or animals if they are into that, lol) they have sex with on the first night or when the relationship is just starting off.
How long should I wait
How long you should wait is up to your beliefs, religon, etc. I recommend at least 2 months, with steady dating. That way the feeling can come or the feelings is not there. ( I mean the real feelings, not love at first sight). I heard 6 months, but that is a long time, but if I am into a lady, I will wait.
To the ladies:
A note to the ladies, giving it up in the beginning, especially on the first date, is not a great way to have a long term boyfriend, because the guy is thinking, if she is willing to have sex with me on the first date, how many other guys has she have sex in the beginning and you just be a booty call, if he likes you. I believe the longer the lady waits (but not too long) to have sex, the guy will think of you more of a long term girlfriend or at least gets you more points. The thing though guys do not like to wait, so you have to be the judge for how long you should wait.
To the guys
To my homies: The first few dates act like a gentleman, I mean give her a kiss, etc, but try not to take no further than that. She will respect you a lot more. I mean act like you are into her, but give her some space. The more dates she has been on with other guys, if you wait just a little bit, she be like “wow, this guy is waited, every other guy was always trying to get into my pants”. You want to at least give her a kiss or something, for she knows that you are into her. Oh yeah, one more thing, NO means NO, dont force it. I mean it is ok to try on the next date, but if you keep trying 10 times a night, that is not good.I learn my lesson the hard way, well not in sex but in sales over the phone (years ago), This lady kept saying no a few times, I kept asking and finally got the sale, my sales manager over heard it and took the sale way from me, it was a 1000 dollar sale.
Another reason to wait
You should also wait because you can have more time to go on dates with no strings attach. I mean it is lot harder to break up with somebody when the sex is great or you do not want to hurt their feelings. Also what if that person thinks you are lousy in bed, if it is the beginning and that person is not into you, then they would probably say adios, but if you wait, it would be a lot harder to break up when wit you because that person cares about you. Besides the longer you wait with a person, the less likely you will contract STD
The questions
The first thing you need to ask yourself is “do I want a relationship with somebody, meaning something more long term, instead of a day or week” ( I had plenty of those, it just did not work out.) If you just want a one night stand or a booty call, then I think it is ok to have sex with that person, as long as they feel the same way and you are not leading them on.
The second question is to ask yourself: How do I feel about this person? Do I see myself going out with her more often? Was everything just flowing like the conversation?
I hope enjoy this post, do not forget to tell everybody you know about this blog, if you like it.
Possibly Related Posts:
Cutting back on cigarettes gradually
By · CommentsCutting back cigarettes gradually is one of the best techniques to quit smoking.
With this method, you open your cigarette pack, then throw one away. Then the next day or week, throw 2 cigarettes away.Before long you will be a non smoker. Of course, you do not have to throw a cigarette away, but it makes it a lot easier.
For example: if you smoke a pack in 24 hour period, throw one away. Pretty soon you be down to 0. Do not go out and buy another pack or cigarette, you want go from 20 to 19 to 18, etc
When you to a certain amount of cigarettes, buy a single stick cigarette, these are often cost 75 cents, and when you spoke 5 single stick cigarettes is a lot better than buying the whole back, because I feel guilty and want to smoke the whole pack.
Another tip is to switch brands that is harsh instead of smoking favorite brand. I would not want to smoke a lot of cigarettes that I do not like
Important points to remember:
- When you throw a cigarette away, do not buy another pack and smoke the other cigarette. This will defeat the purpose.
- Use other quit smoking tactics and tips: like patches, gum, other quit smoking aids
- Do not think of money that you are throwing away, think of as saving money by becoming future non smoker
- Stay away from bars and other places where you smoke a lot.
This method is a lot better than cold turkey method, where you just give it up completely. So start cutting back your smokes gradually
Possibly Related Posts:
#1 Quit Smoking Tip
By · CommentsA great quit smoking tobacco tip
In this article, I want to give you the number one quit smoking tip. Are you ready? I said are you ready?
burn your cigarettes
Then ladies and Gentleman get prepared to: stop smoking tobacco. Sorry I watch wrestling last night, because I did not
find anything on tv
Are you ready for the number one way stop cigarettes tip?
You need to set stop smoking as a goal. It must be a smart goal, which is specfic, measureable, achievable, realistic, and timebased.
You need to be specific: I want to stop using cigarettes
Your goals needs to be measurable: not smoking
Your goals needs to be achievable
realistic- Is it really possible just to stop smoking in a day without no preparation. A better goal would be 2 weeks.
Your goal needs to be time based: I will stop smoking in 2 weeks
After you set your goal, then you need develop a plan. Remember failure to plan, is planning to fail.
Why do you need to quit, because of my daughter or other loves ones
Who can help you with this goal: friends and family.
How will you accomplish this goal:
What methods will you use: nicotine replacement therapy or NRT, or stop smoking cold turkey
Are you going to read any books: I recommend Alan Carr easyway to quit smoking
Also do a google image search for the effects of smoking
How much money will you save? Most people spend Just think what you can do with all that money. The more detailed your plan, the better off you are. Keep asking questions, the better your plan will be
That is my stop smoking tip, which is set goals and have a plan of action. Stay tuned for the future articles where I give you more quit smoking tobacco tips
Possibly Related Posts:
Finding the right Auto Loan for you
By · CommentsFinding the right auto loan for you
When you buy a car, the two things the dealer is going to show you:
-
Most likely the most expensive cars in your price range
-
The financing to purchase the car
When the dealer shows you the financing package it would be based on how much you put down and your credit score. The more you put down the lower the interest rate (because the dealer is taking less of a risk). The higher your credit score, the lower your interest rate as well. At one time my credit score was bad and I had to pay 29 percent interest.
When you choose the financing package offered to you, you want to make sure that you can afford it. The higher amount of money you put down the lower your monthly payment would be. The longer of a time period you have to pay it off, the lower the payment. The higher your credit score, the lower the monthly payment would be.
Another tactic is to negotiate the loan. Just like buying a car, try to stretch out the loan payment or the interest on the deal. You always wanted to start off at a lower number that makes you look serious. For example, on the 29 percent interest, I probably should start off at 20 percent work my way up to what the lender wanted.
Another tactic, is to refinance to a lower interest rate in about 6 months to a year, only if you are making on time payments.You can always go to another lender or through your bank. The next lender wins because you are showing you can pay it on time, without any trouble and plus, you would pay off some of the principal.
No matter what interest payment is the most important factor is being able to afford it, now
Possibly Related Posts:
- The Free Credit Report Scam
- Getting an Auto Loan with bad credit
- How to Improve your Score in 3 easy ways
What is a SMART Goals
By · CommentsWhat is a SMART goal
A smart goal is an acronym for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Time base
Specific: I want a lot of money is not good goal, because it is not specific. A better goal would be I want a Million dollars, because it is specific
Measurable: I want to lose weight, is not measurable, a better goal would be I want to lose 10 pounds
Realistic: Is it really possible to drop 100 pounds in a day? If you lose too much weight at once, I would go see the doctor. Also people who do not have that much weight to lose will find it harder to lose weight compared to somebody who needs to lose 100 pounds.
Time Based: I want a million dollars or I want to lose 15 pounds is a great goal, but it needs a time. Otherwise you might lose that 15 pounds, in 30 years from now (while you gain another 30 pounds). You want to write 15 pounds in 6 months or something to that effect
Possibly Related Posts: